Camp leader who abused boys after lacing sweets is ‘sadistic, monstrous paedophile’, wife says

A summer camp leader who sexually abused young boys after lacing sweets with tranquilising drugs is a “sadistic, monstrous paedophile”, his wife has told a court.

Jon Ruben, 76, was jailed for 23 years and 10 months at Leicester Crown Court on Friday.

The former vet had invited the children to eat quickly in a “sweet game” he had played at the camp he ran at Stathern Lodge, in Stathern, Leicestershire. Ruben also sedated his wife so she would not wake while the abuse took place.

After eight children and an adult fell ill at the camp, Ruben was arrested last July and later pleaded guilty to sexually assaulting two boys, as well as child cruelty towards six other children.

Earlier this week, he also admitted administering a poison or noxious substance to his wife, Susan, during the weekend break.

Ruben, who had also pleaded guilty to three counts of making indecent images of children and four drug charges, appeared at Leicester Crown Court on Friday to be sentenced.

Ms Ruben told his sentencing hearing the defendant had “spent decades trying to paint a picture that he was a righteous, honourable man, when he was actually a sadistic, monstrous paedophile”.

He did not look up and sobbed at various points while his wife gave her victim impact statement.

She said they were supposed to celebrate their silver wedding anniversary next week, but she had commenced divorce proceedings after his arrest.

“This was not the man I thought I married… My life has been turned upside down along with other people’s,” she told the court.

“I have now found out I have no idea who Jon Ruben is and I feel completely betrayed by the immense breach of trust he has inflicted on me, the children, and their parents.”

For at least 27 years, Ruben had run the holiday camps for children living in disadvantaged areas of Nottinghamshire.

At the rented premises, which were not connected to the camp itself, an earlier court hearing heard how there had been a long history of children falling sick at the camp.

Ruben’s skill in poisoning had been “honed over many years”, prosecutor Ms Prior KC told the sentencing hearing, and his actions were “premeditated and planned”.

“The defendant illegally purchased sedatives which, having carefully researched the quantity he needed, using his skill set as a vet to equate the amount needed to sedate animals, he crushed and injected into specially chosen very sweet, very sticky sweets,” she added.

The day after they were drugged, the boys were described as “tired and floppy and seeming to be drunk”.

The defendant thought the sedative was called Temazepam, but because it was bought on the dark web, it was in fact liquid Xanax.

The court heard Ruben took with him to the summer camp a bag with baby oil, Vaseline and other items to “assist him in offending”.

He “carefully chose” the boys who he placed in the rooms closest to his bedroom and away from others, Ms Prior said.

Ruben attempted to interrupt the sentencing hearing by shouting “no” after Ms Prior told the court he had breached his own safeguarding rules.

Judge Timothy Spencer KC told Ruben he could not shout out, and he did not want to hear him shout again from the dock.

“I’m sorry, your Honour, I’m sorry,” the defendant said from the dock, as he cried and held his hand to his face.

Ruben leaned forward in the dock with his head in his hands as graphic details of how he abused the boys was read out to the court.

Some of the victims’ parents in the courtroom sobbed as the details were read.

“If you want to take a break, there’s a door there,” the judge said as some of the victims’ loved ones left the room.

Ruben sobbed and said “I’m so sorry” in the dock, as the judge ordered that the defendant must stay where he is.

The mother of one of Ruben’s victims called the defendant a “creature” who “does not experience any emotions” in a statement she read to the court.

Another child’s mother said Ruben had “ruined the lives of these children”.

She told the court: “We all know who’s to blame for this and it’s you, Jon Ruben.”

Concluding her statement, the child’s mother said: “They’re just kids. Little did we know it was part of your grooming. You disgusting, vile man.”

Ruben’s stepson became suspicious during the camp and searched the offender’s room, where he found baby oil and syringes with white powder. Leicestershire Police were called, but did not arrive until the following day.

The force, which has referred itself to the Independent Office for Police Conduct (IOPC), attended the camp, around 18 miles from Nottingham, to find the eight children and the adult unwell. Further investigation revealed two boys aged under 13 had been sexually assaulted.

Ruben was tracked down and arrested at a nearby pub where he had gone with some of the children from the camp.

His defence barrister told the court Ruben is the “epitome of remorse”.

Thomas Schofield KC said: “His letters of apology to the victims, should they choose to accept it, is an expression of that genuine remorse.”

He added: “This defendant could have put his victims through a trial, the thought of that is horrendous.”

The indecent images charges admitted by Ruben related to 50 Category A indecent videos of children, 22 Category B videos and seven Category C videos made between August 2023 and June this year. None of the images concerned relate to children who were at the summer camp.